Sleeping with Ghosts: A Stay at Lumley Castle, County Durham’s 600-Year-Old Fortress

Lumley Castle reception

It started, as the best adventures often do, with a whim. I was meandering through the North East, a gap in my schedule opening up like a forgotten page in a diary.

A quick search on my phone, a few taps on a booking app, and suddenly I had a date with a 600-year-old castle.

There’s a peculiar magic in that modern paradox: the ability to spontaneously book a night in a place that has stood since the days of knights and chivalry, a place built to withstand sieges, now surrendering its gates to a last-minute digital reservation.

The approach to Lumley Castle is a journey in itself. You leave the hum of the A1(M) behind, and as you turn down the winding drive, the modern world begins to recede.

Then, it appears. It doesn’t just sit in the landscape; it commands it. Just as countless descriptions have attested, the castle “dominates the County Durham landscape,” its formidable silhouette perched above the River Wear.

The first glimpse of its towering stone walls, octagonal towers, and crenellated battlements is genuinely breathtaking. It feels less like arriving at a hotel and more like stepping onto a film set or, as many recent visitors have described it, into a “fairytale”.  

Parking the car and walking towards the grand entrance, the sheer scale and age of the place begin to sink in.

lumley castle front

The air feels different here, heavy with the weight of centuries. The architectural blend of Norman and Gothic elements tells a story of enduring strength and medieval grandeur.

This is the thrill of Lumley Castle—it’s not a sanitised, museum-like experience. It’s the visceral feeling of inhabiting history, a powerful juxtaposition of the ancient and the immediate.

My spontaneous decision, made in a fleeting digital moment, had delivered me to a place built for the ages.

The Stones Remember: A Castle Forged in Treason and Royalty

To truly appreciate a stay at Lumley, you have to understand the stories etched into its very stones.

This is no mere stately home; it was born from the violent, turbulent politics of 14th-century England. Its creator, Sir Ralph Lumley, was a celebrated soldier, a veteran of the brutal border wars against Scotland, and a hero of the 1388 Battle of Otterburn.

In 1389, having proven his loyalty and military prowess, he was granted a license by the Bishop of Durham to “crenellate” his family manor—to fortify it and transform it into the quadrangular castle we see today.  

This act was the pinnacle of Sir Ralph’s ambition, a permanent testament to his family’s power and prestige.

Yet, his triumph was tragically short-lived. In a dramatic turn of fortune, Sir Ralph joined the “Epiphany Rising,” a doomed plot to overthrow the usurper King Henry IV and restore Richard II to the throne.

The rebellion was crushed, and for his part, Sir Ralph Lumley was captured and executed for high treason in January 1400. He never returned to his beloved castle, and his vast estates were forfeited to the Crown.  

The castle’s story is a powerful lesson in the precariousness of power during the medieval era. However, the Lumley legacy proved resilient.

flag on lumley castle

In 1421, ownership was rightfully restored to Sir Ralph’s grandson, Thomas, and the family dynasty continued within its walls for centuries.

Over the years, the castle evolved. The great architect Sir John Vanbrugh, famed for Blenheim Palace, is credited with Georgian alterations in the 18th century, including what is now the magnificent Library Bar.

In 1603, King James I stopped here on his journey from Scotland to claim the English throne. Much later, in the 19th century, it became a hall of residence for Durham University students, affectionately known as “Castlemen”.

lumley castle from the grounds

Finally, in 1976, it began its latest chapter as the unique hotel it is today. To stay here is to feel the entire arc of that history—from feudal might and royal intrigue to its modern reinvention as a sanctuary of heritage and hospitality.  

A Room Fit for a King (or a Ghost): My Chamber at Lumley

The walk to my room was an adventure in itself, a labyrinth of thick-walled corridors and winding stone staircases.

looking down the stairs at Lumley Castle

Lumley Castle offers a choice of 71 rooms, and this choice is perhaps the most fundamental one a guest can make.

The rooms are divided between the main Castle itself and the beautifully converted former stables and mews of the Courtyard. This isn’t just a difference in location; it’s a choice between two distinct experiences.

the bed in the room

Opting for a room within the castle walls is to embrace full historical immersion. These chambers, from the Classic rooms to the opulent Feature rooms and named suites, are steeped in character.

Many boast magnificent four-poster beds, deep-set windows with stone ledges, and delightful quirks. One guest on TripAdvisor raved about discovering a “fairy tale” secret bathroom hidden behind a mirrored wardrobe door.

The grandest of these are the suites: the King James Suite, formerly the castle chapel, features a breathtaking 20-foot-high four-poster bed and a Jacuzzi with views over the parkland.

Meanwhile, the Queen Anne Suite is whispered to be the most haunted chamber in the castle, a tantalising prospect for the brave.  

The Courtyard rooms, by contrast, offer a more contemporary take on castle living. Housed in the historic stable block, they blend modern comforts with heritage details like sloping eaves and exposed beams.

This is also where you’ll find the hotel’s dog-friendly accommodation, a welcome option for those travelling with a four-legged companion.  

My room was in the main castle. The first thing that struck me was the silence, a profound quietude that only centuries-old, feet-thick stone walls can provide.

lumley castle room

The room was a tapestry of old and new: a grand, comfortable bed that recent guests rightly praise , antique furniture, and a deep window seat overlooking the sprawling green of the Durham County Cricket Ground and the gentle curve of the River Wear.

Yet, all the modern necessities were present—fast Wi-Fi, a Nespresso machine, and a well-appointed bathroom. While some reviews have noted that certain rooms could benefit from a “refresh,” my own chamber felt perfectly atmospheric, a comfortable nook in which to absorb the castle’s timeless spirit.  

To help you decide on your own adventure, here’s a guide to the different experiences on offer.

If you are a…Your Ideal Room Is…Your Ideal Activity Is…
Romantic CoupleA Castle Feature Room with a four-poster bed and a hidden bathroom.Dinner in the candlelit Knights Restaurant.
History BuffThe King James Suite (the former chapel) for its historical significance.A Guided Castle Tour to learn the stories behind the stones.
Paranormal EnthusiastThe Queen Anne Suite, reputedly the most haunted room in the castle.The “Night with the Spirits” paranormal investigation or the Lily of Lumley Escape Room.
Fun-Loving GroupInter-connecting Courtyard Rooms for modern comfort and convenience.An Elizabethan Banquet or a Murder Mystery Dinner.
Regional ExplorerA Courtyard Classic Room as a comfortable and practical base.The North East Heritage Package including tickets to Beamish Museum.

Feasting Like a Lord: Dining at Lumley Castle

One of the most consistent threads of praise in recent reviews of Lumley Castle is reserved for its food, and after my stay, I can wholeheartedly agree.

The castle offers two distinct dining experiences, each masterfully tailored to a different mood and occasion.  

For a truly regal evening, there is the award-winning Knights Restaurant. Set within a magnificent vaulted chamber with stone pillars and bathed in the soft glow of candlelight, the atmosphere is pure medieval romance.

This is the castle’s fine-dining heart, serving a menu of “classical dishes with an original twist”. The focus is on high-quality, locally sourced ingredients, with the à la carte menu featuring sophisticated options like a starter of Scallop, Crabmeat & Coriander Lasagne with a shellfish cream, or a main of Tournedos of Homer Hill Farm Beef with a bone marrow crust.

It’s an experience designed for special occasions, where the historic grandeur of the setting elevates an already exceptional meal into something truly memorable.  

For a more relaxed but no less delicious affair, there is the Library Bar. True to its name, this traditionally styled bar is a cosy, welcoming space with comfortable armchairs and, in the winter months, a roaring log fire.

It’s the kind of place where, as the hotel’s own website suggests, “once you settle down, you’ll find it difficult to move on”.

The bar serves a more casual menu, along with sumptuous afternoon teas and a superb selection of drinks. It’s the perfect spot for a pre-dinner cocktail, a light lunch after a walk, or a comforting meal at the end of a long day of exploring.  

What’s clever about this dual offering is that it’s not just about different price points; it’s about selling two different atmospheres.

The Knights Restaurant offers formality and romance, while the Library Bar provides comfort and relaxation. This ensures that whether you’re a guest on a celebratory weekend or a weary traveller seeking a quiet pint, your needs are not just met, but exceeded.

upstairs of lumley castle

The Lady in the Well: A Rendezvous with the Ghosts of Lumley

No account of Lumley Castle would be complete without delving into the chilling tale that has made it one of the most famously haunted places in County Durham. At the heart of its paranormal lore is the tragic figure of Lily of Lumley.

As the legend goes, Lily was the beautiful young wife of Sir Ralph Lumley in the 14th century. She was a woman of principle who, despite the pressures of the time, refused to renounce her faith and convert to Catholicism.

Two enraged priests, so the story claims, took it upon themselves to punish her for her defiance. They murdered her and cast her body down a deep well within the castle grounds, later telling a distraught Sir Ralph that his wife had simply left him to become a nun.

But Lily never left. Her spirit is said to rise from the well, a sorrowful apparition in white, forever wandering the corridors and grounds of her former home, perhaps searching for justice or for the husband she lost.  

What makes this story so compelling is the tantalising gap between folklore and fact.

Historical records show that Sir Ralph Lumley’s wife was actually a woman named Eleanor Neville; there is no official mention of a “Lily” in the family pedigrees.

busts in the corridor of Lumley Castle

This historical ambiguity doesn’t weaken the legend; it fuels it. The story exists in that powerful space between myth and memory, unable to be proven but impossible to dismiss.  

Lily is not alone. Over the centuries, guests and staff have reported encounters with other spectral residents.

There is “Black Jack,” a mischievous poltergeist known for playing pranks like sliding glasses off tables and moving belongings.

Others have heard the disembodied laughter and screams of children from the top floor or seen processions of ghostly monks walking the castle grounds.

These tales were famously brought into the modern era when visiting international cricket teams, including the Indian and Australian squads in the early 2000s, reported experiencing paranormal activity, with some players becoming too frightened to sleep alone in their rooms.  

Modern Merriment in a Medieval Fortress

While Lumley Castle reveres its past, it is anything but stuck in it. The management has masterfully woven the castle’s history and folklore into a series of unique, immersive experiences that transform a simple hotel stay into a genuine adventure. This is not a place for passive sightseeing; it’s a place to participate.

The most ingenious example of this is the “Lily of Lumley” Escape Room. In a UK first for a historic site, the castle’s former beer cellar has been converted into an atmospheric puzzle room. Teams have just 60 minutes to solve a series of clues related to the castle’s most famous ghost and “lift the curse”.

It’s a brilliant way to engage with the legend on a whole new level, blending history with the thrill of a modern challenge.  

For those who prefer feasting to puzzles, the castle’s long-running Elizabethan Banquets are legendary. Held in the magnificent Barons Hall, these are boisterous evenings of merriment. Guests are served a five-course meal, complete with goblets of mead and wine, and are entertained by costumed “Lords and Ladies of the Court” with songs and sketches.

The best part? There’s no cutlery. You are handed a dagger and encouraged to eat with your hands, a wonderfully liberating experience that, according to reviews, is riotous fun.  

Adding to the interactive offerings are the regular Murder Mystery Dinners. These evenings combine a delicious three-course meal with a theatrical “whodunnit,” inviting guests to become detectives and solve a crime.

With plots changing every month—from a 1920s “Silent Movie Murder” to a thriller set aboard the Titanic—it’s an event that encourages locals and tourists alike to return for a new mystery.

For the truly brave, the castle also hosts “Night with the Spirits” events, where a professional paranormal team leads ghost hunts into areas of the castle not usually open to the public.

These events showcase a smart understanding of modern travel: today’s guests don’t just want to see history; they want to experience it, play a part in it, and create their own stories within its walls.

Getting There

  • By Car: Lumley Castle is easily accessible, located just off Junction 63 of the A1(M). Follow the signs for Chester-le-Street and then the brown tourist signs for the castle.  
  • By Train: The nearest station is Chester-le-Street, which is only a 5-minute taxi ride away and has regular services from Newcastle and Durham.  
clock on the castle lumley

Beyond the Battlements: A Base for Exploring County Durham

While Lumley Castle is a destination in its own right, its strategic location makes it an absolutely perfect base for exploring the treasures of County Durham and the wider North East.

It sits conveniently between the historic city of Durham and the vibrant hub of Newcastle, just minutes from the A1(M), making it incredibly accessible.  

You could spend days exploring the surrounding area. Here are just a few of the highlights:

Beamish, The Living Museum of the North: Just a six-mile drive away, this world-famous open-air museum brings the region’s history to life in the most incredible way. The castle acknowledges this prime attraction by offering a “North East Heritage Package,” which bundles a two-night stay with tickets to Beamish and afternoon tea.  

Durham City: A mere 10 miles south lies one of England’s most beautiful cities. The skyline is dominated by the awe-inspiring Durham Cathedral and Castle, which together form a UNESCO World Heritage Site.  

The Angel of the North: Antony Gormley’s iconic steel sculpture, a powerful symbol of the region, is just six miles away and is a must-see.  

Durham Heritage Coast: For a dose of natural beauty, the stunning coastline, which has regenerated from its industrial past into a dramatic landscape of cliffs and dunes, is a short drive east.  

On Your Doorstep: You don’t even need a car for some attractions. The castle grounds lead to lovely walks along the River Wear, and it’s just a short stroll to the historic market town of Chester-le-Street or the neighbouring Durham County Cricket Ground.  

By actively promoting and packaging these regional highlights, Lumley Castle positions itself not just as a hotel, but as the hub of a comprehensive North East adventure. It’s a smart strategy that transforms a one-night novelty stay into a compelling reason for a longer, more immersive holiday.

corridor lighting in lumley castle

The BaldHiker’s Verdict

My spontaneous stay at Lumley Castle was everything I hoped it would be and more. It is a rare and wonderful thing to find a place that so perfectly balances authentic historical grandeur with warm hospitality and modern fun.

The atmosphere is undeniably its greatest asset; you feel the centuries of history in every stone, corridor, and candlelit chamber. This, combined with genuinely exceptional food and a host of unique, immersive activities, makes for an unforgettable experience.

Of course, a 630-year-old building comes with its quirks. As some guest reviews note, not every room will have the polished perfection of a new-build hotel, and prices for extras can be on the higher side.

But to focus on these minor points would be to miss the magic of the place entirely. You don’t come to Lumley Castle for standardised perfection; you come for character, for stories, and for the chance to sleep in a real-life fortress.  

It is a place that caters to so many different travellers—the romantic couple seeking a fairytale escape, the history enthusiast eager to walk in the footsteps of knights, the paranormal fan hoping for a ghostly encounter, and the family looking for an adventure they’ll talk about for years.

Manage your expectations—embrace the history, forgive the occasional creaky floorboard—and you will be rewarded with a stay that is truly one of a kind.

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